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It's 2 AM. You're dissecting his texts again—calculating response times, analyzing word choice, checking when he was "too tired" to reply but somehow had energy to post on Instagram.

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You've told your best friend this story so many times you can see it in her eyes: she doesn't know what to say anymore. She loves you, so she keeps reassuring you—but you both know it's not helping.

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You catch yourself defending him. Making excuses. Justifying behavior that your gut has been screaming about for months. Then the doubt creeps in: "Am I overreacting? Am I the problem?"

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The mental exhaustion is stealing your peace. You're not present at work, with friends, or even when you're alone. Every moment gets hijacked by the same thought spiral you can't escape.

Here's the uncomfortable truth: Your friends are emotionally invested in keeping you happy, not telling you what you need to hear. They'll soften edges, rationalize his behavior, and avoid being "that friend" who tells you to leave—because they're terrified of being wrong and losing you.

You don't need another voice protecting your feelings. You need someone who sees the pattern clearly and has nothing to lose by telling you the truth.

What You Actually Need

Someone Who'll Tell You What Everyone Else Won't

An unfiltered analysis from someone who has nothing to gain from keeping you comfortable and everything to gain from giving you the truth that sets you free.

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Fill out our questionnaire with the full story—the timeline, specific incidents, things he does that make your stomach drop, AND the parts that feel good. We need it all to see the real pattern.

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We Connect the Dots You're Too Close to See

Paul and his team read your story with zero emotional investment in the outcome. They spot the patterns you've been missing—or the ones you've been avoiding—because distance creates clarity.

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Wake Up to the Answer in Your Inbox

In 24 business hours, you get a 2-3 page breakdown: what we see, why it matters, what's really happening here, and—most importantly—what you should actually do about it.

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Here's Exactly What Lands in Your Inbox

Not generic relationship advice. Not therapy speak. A real analysis of YOUR situation with specific answers to the questions keeping you up at night.

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2-3 Pages

The Patterns You've Been Missing

We map out your relationship's actual dynamic—not what you hope it is, but what the evidence shows it is. The communication patterns, behavior cycles, and inconsistencies get laid out in a way that finally makes sense.

✓ The loops that keep repeating (and why you can't break them)
✓ What his specific behaviors actually signal
✓ Why your gut has been screaming at you

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Red & Green Flags

The Things You've Been Explaining Away

We call out the red flags you've been rationalizing AND the green flags anxiety might be blinding you to. Because honestly? Sometimes you're right to be worried. And sometimes you're catastrophizing something good.

✓ The specific behaviors that are actually concerning (not just "different")
✓ The positive patterns you might be dismissing
✓ What's fixable versus what's fundamentally misaligned

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The Verdict

The Verdict You Actually Need

Not "it depends" or "trust your gut" or "only you know." We tell you what we see based on years of analyzing relationships: Is this worth fighting for? Or are you clinging to potential that doesn't exist?

✓ Our unfiltered assessment of where this is actually going
✓ What to do next (specific steps, not vague advice)
✓ The hard questions to ask him—and yourself—if you stay

This isn't therapy where we explore your feelings. It's not coaching where we empower you to find your own answer. This is pattern recognition from someone who's seen this exact dynamic play out hundreds of times—and can tell you, with uncomfortable accuracy, how it usually ends.

Meet Paul Volskis

@paultelostory

Creator of Audit Him and trusted Social Media Creator to 122,000+ women across Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook. Every audit is personally reviewed by Paul and based on the same proven principles he shares in his content—brutally honest, zero BS, and focused on helping you trust yourself again.

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"I'd been with my partner for 3 years, constantly making excuses for why he was 'too busy' to prioritize me. The audit laid out patterns I'd been blind to. They weren't mean about it—just honest. I ended things the next week. Best decision I've made in years."

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"My friends kept saying 'he's probably just stressed' but my gut wouldn't shut up. The audit confirmed what I already knew deep down but was too scared to admit. Having someone say it out loud gave me permission to trust myself again."

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"I was spiraling, convinced everything was falling apart. The audit showed me I was catastrophizing and pointed out all the green flags I'd been ignoring. We're engaged now! Sometimes anxiety makes you blind to what's actually good."

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"I was skeptical—like, can someone really know my relationship from a form? But they picked up on dynamics I hadn't even consciously noticed. It's like they held up a mirror and made me see what was really there."

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You Know You're Not Going to Stop Thinking About This

So here's your choice:

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You Already Know Something's Wrong. You Just Need Permission to Trust Yourself.

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Someone Who'll Tell You What Everyone Else Won't

Dump Everything on Us

We Connect the Dots You're Too Close to See

Wake Up to the Answer in Your Inbox

Here's Exactly What Lands in Your Inbox

The Patterns You've Been Missing

The Things You've Been Explaining Away

The Verdict You Actually Need

Meet Paul Volskis

Real Women, Real Clarity

Stop Reading. Start Getting Answers.

Section 1: Basic Context

Section 2: The Relationship Dynamics

Section 3: The Red/Yellow Flags

Section 4: Your Perspective

Section 5: Consent & Legal

You Know You're Not Going to Stop Thinking About This